What I when through for this past 2@3 years ago. Well kite time2 gini lah kita nk knl org nak cri Mr Right. Firstly, masa kenal dgn Mr I ni, i mean dia okay, Kenal dia about 9@10 years then we both breakup just because my arents won't accept him. At that time i was 20 years old. At first I thought maybe his my mr right, tup tup I salah. Maybe tkde jodoh.
Then a few month later, kenal dgn someone. I called him Mr Z. So Mr Z nie pula, dia yg beria2 nak kenal, so i tk hingin pon kenal dgn dia. Sebabnya? I dont think his the one and im not ready for another relationship in this short amount of time. What happen is that, this Mr Z he keep texting me and keep asking me why i never texted him back. So because i felt pity for him so i just reply his text. After a few weeks I give him a chance to get to know me more. So pup pap pup pap it only lasted for 3 month.
Sedihkan? Betul lah ape yg org cakap. Lelaki ni time dia nk usya, baik je, sweet2 je ayt dia, bila dia dh dapat kau dia buat kau mcm sampah je,kecuali kalau dia betul2 sygkan kau bru dia usaha untuk pertahankan relationship dia, tapi susah nak dapat laki yg betul2 sygkan kita nie.
So kembali pada citer Mr Z nie, so sepanjang tempoh 4 bulan kenal dia, apa yg i dpt sepanjang i kenal dia is, okay umur dh 21 takkan nk main2 lagi kan? so i say to him, dtg rumah jmpe my parents. And dia jawab nnti, beribu2 kali dia punya nanti, Then i ask him, serius ke tk nie dgn hubungan kita? Then dia jawab, Ye serius saya nk awak jadi isteri saya. Okay dia dh ckp mcm tu, so again i remind kt dia dtg jmpe parents i. And again dia jawab taknak, belum bersedia. So kalau uolls ape uolls fikir? Mesti you guys fikir dia tk serius and ade org lain. Why i say dia ade org lain? Sbb ajak jmpe susah betul nk jmpe, same je alasan dia, busy je memanjang, sampai tkde mase langsung untuk I.
Then makin lame kenal tu belang dia keluar even baru 4 months kenal. Dia ni pula jenis kalau mrh suke guna kau aku dgn I. Of coz lah sentap kan kalau kena cm tu. So dri situ I dah thu the true colour of Mr Z. Then the very last moment I wassap is when i was working night shift, at that time I kena food poisoning sbb sakit perut and muntah2. Then Mr Z wassap me and ask me, kenapa keje juga dh thu sakit, then i ssaid tk bole sbb sakit perut je lagipon my mom tk bgi amek mc kalau sakit perut je. Then you guys thu dia jawab ape? Asal mak kau bodoh sgt? Wah suke hati dia cakap mak i bodoh, belum kawen dh tkde rase hormat kt my mom, then bile dah kawen? Maybe mak dia pon dia tk respect kot, thats senang2 ckp mak org lain bodoh. So rude.
So pengajaran yg i dpt sepanjang i kenal Mr Z, tinggalkan je lelaki yg tk bole nak respect u and ur family. Kalau dia susah sgt nk dtg jmpe u guys punye parents, mcm2 alasan dia bagi, better tinggalkan je. Tk berguna u guys simpan lelaki mcm tu. In shaa Allah ade yg lebih baik lagi dri dia.
So to Mr Z if ever read this post, just wanna say thank u for everything. Tak rugi saya tk dapat awk. Cause awak tkde rasa hormat kt family saya. And saya tak menyesal tinggalkan awak.
So thats all for this post. Thank u for reading.
Till the next post
ReenaAzharđ
